I am especially grateful to have the opportunity to hear from pastors’ wives since much of my focus is on pastors.
Our recent, informal survey simply asked the open-ended question: “What do you wish you had been told before you became a minister’s wife?
If it did result in reconciliation it seldom lasted long.Over the years here, there have been countless questions, comments, musings about whether or not someone should write a letter to their ex.I can’t tell you how many times I’ve contemplated that myself on a personal basis.My thinking is that it doesn’t tend to “make or break” a situation in the long run.There are a few things you might wish to take into account if you’re feeling the urge to make contact with an ex: How much time has elapsed? Similar to “time” – your emotions are constantly changing thus so are the perceptions of your relationship and break up. Some days you will be sad, others angry, still others maybe empowered, and of course somedays you’ll be more forgiving than others too!